Embracing Our Bodies as Living Art: Celebrating Beauty through Boudoir Photography

In a world where beauty is often narrowly defined and scrutinized, it's time we recognize that our bodies are exquisite works of art, deserving of celebration and admiration. Boudoir photography offers a unique opportunity to embrace our bodies as living art and revel in their inherent beauty. By capturing intimate and artistic moments, boudoir allows us to recognize the artistry of our physical selves, fostering a profound sense of self-acceptance, empowerment, and celebration. In this post, we delve into the concept of our bodies as works of art and how boudoir photography provides a powerful platform for honoring and celebrating our unique artistic expressions.

The Artistry of the Human Form: Every curve, every line, and every nuance of the human body tells a story. Just like a painting or a sculpture, our bodies are a testament to the beauty and complexity of the human form. Boudoir photography allows us to appreciate the artistry of our bodies, capturing their grace, strength, and sensuality. By exploring various poses, lighting, and perspectives, we photographers can bring out the artistic elements of the human form, transforming it into a captivating masterpiece.

Unveiling Vulnerability: Boudoir photography celebrates the vulnerability of the human body and the courage it takes to be seen and appreciated. Just as artists reveal their vulnerabilities through their art, boudoir sessions encourage individuals to embrace their own vulnerability, exposing their authentic selves without fear or judgment. By embracing vulnerability, we unveil the raw and genuine aspects of our bodies, creating a profound connection with our own unique artistry.

Self-Expression and Individuality: Boudoir provides a platform for self-expression and celebrating our individuality. Each body tells a unique story, and boudoir sessions allow us to express ourselves through the lens of creativity and sensuality. By selecting wardrobe, posing, and themes that resonate with our personal style, we create a visual narrative that reflects our inner selves. Boudoir photography celebrates the beauty of individuality, reminding us that our bodies are canvases for self-expression and personal artistry.

Embracing Imperfections: Just like art, our bodies bear imperfections that make them all the more fascinating and authentic. Boudoir photography encourages us to embrace these imperfections, recognizing them as part of our unique beauty. We create images that showcase the beauty in every scar, stretch mark, or perceived flaw. This celebration of imperfections serves as a powerful reminder that our bodies are not only art in their entirety but also in the intricacies that make them uniquely our own.

Empowerment and Self-Celebration: Boudoir photography is a transformative experience that empowers us to celebrate our bodies and reconnect with our inner strength and self-worth. Through the art of boudoir, we learn to appreciate ourselves as the living, breathing works of art that we are. The process of capturing intimate and empowering images allows us to reclaim our bodies, challenge societal beauty standards, and embrace our unique beauty with confidence and pride.

Boudoir photography invites us to recognize the artistry in our bodies and celebrate them as living works of art. By embracing vulnerability, self-expression, imperfections, and empowerment, we honor the beauty and complexity of the human form. Through boudoir photography, we reclaim our bodies as unique canvases, reminding ourselves and the world that we are masterpieces deserving of celebration and admiration. So, let us embrace our bodies as living art and revel in the extraordinary beauty that resides within each of us.

The Orenda

Boudoir photography is a celebration of the female form. It allows women to see themselves in a new light and appreciate the beauty of their bodies. When women are able to see themselves in a positive light, and they feel good about themselves and their bodies.

Boudoir also allows women to step out of their comfort zones and embrace their sensuality. For many women, this can be a liberating experience that helps them feel more confident and empowered. When women are able to connect with their sensuality, they feel comfortable in their own skin and confident in their own bodies.

A Boudoir photo session also helps women see themselves as unique and beautiful individuals. Each woman has her own unique body type, shape, and size, and boudoir photography celebrates this diversity. By seeing themselves in a new light, women come to appreciate their bodies for what they are, rather than what they are not.

Stepping in front of the camera can help women break free from societal beauty standards and embrace their own definition of beauty. In a world that often values thinness and youthfulness above all else, boudoir photography offers a different perspective. By celebrating women of all shapes, sizes, and ages, boudoir photography can help women redefine beauty on their own terms.

Boudoir is a powerful tool for increasing body positivity in women. By celebrating the beauty and sensuality of the female form, creating a safe and supportive environment, and helping women embrace their own unique beauty, boudoir photography can help women feel more confident and empowered in their own bodies.

I have created a quarterly magazine which celebrates women and boudoir. It is available in digital and hard copy. I invite you to take a look and explore what boudoir has to offer you. The Orenda is available at the link below.

My personal struggle with body image

We are bombarded daily with images or gorgeous women who have perfect skin, teeth, figures, and lives. Or so we are led to believe. I am thankful we are seeing more ad campaigns including women of other shapes and sizes lately. However, that doesn’t undo the damage that has been created from years and years of seeing it. I wish the song “Victoria’s Secret” had come out when I was a teenager! However, that being said, as a teenager I had a rockin’ bod! I thought it had horrible flaws, but in reality it was smokin!

After giving birth to each of my 4 children I was over joyed when 1 week (freaking one week) later I hoped back into my size 5 jeans and they fit. WTF! Who does that shit? I was “blessed”, But even with that body I heard all sorts of crap about it. “You need to eat more.” “You’re too skinny!” “Do you ever actually eat?” It took a toll. I never thought I was good enough. Even though I looked good, it still wasn’t good enough. And when I looked in the mirror all I saw were the stretch marks and saggy boobs from breast feeding 4 beautiful babies. I earned those beautiful marks and saggy boobs, damn it! I created life and nourished it with my own body. But, there I was, filled with negative self talk. When I got divorced things plummeted even further and I was down to a whopping 97 lbs. I ate like crazy trying to gain weight and couldn’t because of all the stress. I had several people confront me and tell me how concerned they were for me and my health. Damn….I was too. I was a nurse and was doing everything I knew to stay healthy, but the stress was taking a toll and my body was paying the price.

Then poof! I got sick. I was diagnosed with autoimmune disorders and I gained 80lbs in 2 months due to the medications I had to take just to be able to function and do normal everyday things like shower and get dressed. Talk about a game changer. And the weight just kept climbing. I tried everything to stop it, but it kept climbing. Talk about a mind F*%$. Not only was I struggling to deal with a life altering diagnosis and my loss of autonomy but, I no longer recognized myself in the mirror. I felt as though my body had let me down in every way imaginable. I was angry. Angry as hell! I spent a year pissed off. I had gone from a size XS to a size 2XL in a matter of months. Nothing fit, I was uncomfortable, exhausted, in pain and down right depressed. I grieved for the person I used to be. I wished, pleaded and prayed to return to my “normal”. That was not to be. My life would forever be changed by autoimmune disorders and the medications I need to take in order to function day to day. I had to accept my body was going to look, feel, and act differently than it had before. Easier said than done!

There was a lot of mental work that went into accepting who I now was. There was a lot of reflection. I had to look at what truly mattered in life. And it didn’t matter if I was a size 2 or a size 22. A lot of tears were cried. A lot of frustration was felt. Slowly, I began to climb out of my depression. I began to see my body as no longer a prison, but a unique opportunity of connection most people don’t understand. My body talks to me in ways other people ignore. I ignored mine too, for too long. It had to get super bossy and yell at me to get my attention. I had to change my thinking in a lot of ways to accept my new body and new reality. I had to stop thinking of my body as broken or defective or as anything less than perfect. I wasn’t any of those things. It was unique and beautiful in it’s own way. It had been beautiful before and it was no less beautiful now. It had more stretchmarks that marked my journey through this chapter, for sure. But, now I see them as battle scars, a warrior’s proof of surviving a great battle. I had to make a consious decision to be a warrior and not a victim.

A beautiful thing started happening when I changed my thinking and started to love and accept my body. The weight stopped climbing and I was actually able to lose some weight. I was loving and nurturing myself in all ways again! I was exercising, sleeping, and eating right. And because of that my body loved me right back. It has always been faithful to me, even when I was the ugliest to it. It has shown up for me every day, no matter how poorly I treated it or talked to it. And for that I owe it my eternal gratitude. When I changed my way of thinking new doors began opening. I started stepping thru them and a wonderful new world began to emerge. I never would have become a photographer had I not gotten sick. I certainly would never have been in the position to reach so many beautiful souls as I do with Boudoir Photography had I not gone through what I have been through.

Often, when we are in the thick of a murky battle, we are unable to see the light. It is there, but clouded by the heaviness of the situation. After time and reflection we are able to see, what we once thought was so daunting, was actually a huge blessing in disguise. I am thankful each day I have gone thru the trials I have been thru. It has shaped me into who I am. And although I am flawed, I am perfect…..just as I am.

My Favorite Self Care Tips

We as women are generally the care takers. Factor in many of us are in the work force or own our own businesses and that means we have little time to care for our own needs. Self care is so vital for our overall health and well being, however. If we don't care for ourselves first, we are unable to give 100% to the rest of the world who needs us. I challenge you to practice some self care each and every day, even if it is only 5 minutes a day. Here are some of my favorite self care ideas.

1. Sleep. Sleep is when our body resets and heals itself from whatever it has been thru during the day. A good sleep hygiene routine is vital to self care. Go to bed at the same time each night and wake up at the same time each morning. Sleep in a room that is cool. Don't sleep with the tv on. Don't eat before bed. Try some soothing essential oils to help you drift off to dream land.

2. Hydrate. Our body is 80% water and it takes water to function! Plain old water is best. It will help with every system in your body.

It gives your skin a healthy glow and helps prevent break outs. Water helps with your energy levels and helps remove toxins from your body. You need to replace your fluids especially when the temperatures rise!

3. Add color to your diet. You have to eat. So a simple way to practice self care is by adding color to your meals. Adding color will add variety thereby adding different vitamins, minerals, and all the good stuff your body needs.

4. Breathe. You don't need any special classes, equipment, time or space for this one. Simply close your eyes and take a few deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth. It does wonders to relax you!

5. Get moving. The weather in Montana can be unpredictable. While it is warm, get out and take a walk or a hike on one of our beautiful trails. Getting out in nature does wonderful things for our spirit. Exercise also releases "feel good" hormones so do it often!

6. Add Epson salts to your bath. Epson salts naturally pull out any impurities and also give a boost of Magnesium. They help with sore muscles as well as helping you to relax. You can buy them with all sorts of aromatherapy scents for added benefit.

7. Music. Music has a way of swaying our moods. Put on your favorite tunes and give a listen. They are sure to help you destress after a long day!

8. Me Time. Take a few moments each day to check in with yourself. Try to find a space where you are undistracted and just sit and breathe. Check in and see how you are doing. Listen to how your body responds. It will tell you what it needs, you just have to take time to listen.

A Year of Self Discovery

Being a boudoir photographer you would think I would have experienced the powers of boudoir for myself long before now. However, my personal journey with boudoir started New Year’s Day of last year. I sat in my living room and and thought, “Why not?” . And so began a year of self love and discovery, one which I will continue on a deeper level this year. I learned getting nakey can be more intimidating than I realized. Even photographing myself, by myself, I discovered I had more hang ups about my physical self than I realized. Even though I knew the poses and angles and all the “tricks”, looking at the photos was difficult. It wasn’t that the photos weren’t beautiful. It was my mind. The negative committee had been a resident there for so long. That committee knew exactly how to break down my self confidence and show me all my supposed flaws in an instant. I thought I had mastered all that b.s.! I was wrong. Then came the imposter syndrome. If I felt this way, how could I possibly photograph other women and give them the experience they deserved? Was I really a good enough photographer to photograph them when I took such crappy photos of myself? Was I a good enough human to provide them a safe space to be venerable? How could I tell a woman to embrace herself as she is if I couldn’t do that after seeing my photos? What I discovered in the months following changed me and made me fall in love with the art of Boudoir photography even more! I am a better artist and person because of it.

First, I had to tell the negative committee to sit down and shut up! I sat with my photos and really studied them. I asked myself what about them bothered me. I had gained weight. Ok. Well, didn’t that mean I was also well fed? Didn’t that also mean I enjoyed snacks with my grandbabies, and meals with my family? I also took note that I have managed to keep some of my previous weight off for over 5 years now and that is also a win. Another hang up were my wrinkles. Well, those laugh lines around my eyes, didn’t that mean I had joy in my life? And those worry lines on my forehead, those came from trials that helped me grow into the person I am today. Stretch marks, well what a blessing those are! I carried 4 beautiful babies! As I continued to go thru each of my “complaints” I was able to change my thinking and see how each were a part of my story. Some were battle scars, others were the result of great blessings. All of them proved my body has faithfully shown up for me day in and day out and it has a story to tell.

Now I needed to surrender to the process. How does one go about doing that? First was allowing someone else to photograph me. My dear friend, Devan, and I scheduled monthly sessions with one another. It was a bit intimidating at first being the subject instead of the one behind the camera. However, connecting with your photographer is so important. If you don’t connect or trust them with the vision I don’t know how you could fully open up and allow yourself the freedom to experience all Boudoir has to offer beyond the photographs. I trusted Devan to pose me and guide me in a way that would be flattering and honor both my journey and my body. In between times with Devan I practiced my self portraiture and began to learn how to pose my own body and which camera angles worked for me with a camera on a tripod using a remote (not the easiest thing in the world lol). With each session I was able to let my walls down and surrender a little more. I also noticed during this time I was honoring myself and my body more outside the studio as well. I was taking time to recharge, taking better care of myself, and doing more things that brought me joy. I was able to connect to my clients faster and on a deeper level than before and my work showed it.

Surrender helped me realize I was really short changing myself. I was denying myself so much joy in life. By forgetting about the glorious, feminine creature I am at my core I was simply crossing things off my to do list with a few bonus items thrown in for fun. By tapping into the woman I remembered how special I am and what unique gifts come from being a woman. I am soft, yet strong. I am brave and gentle. I am powerful and independent and driven, yet crave intimacy and being cared for. By surrendering to the process I was able to take off all the masks, or hats, I wear and strip back to who I am at the core of my being and celebrate myself! I am still a work in process, but damn it is glorious.

Here I am, just over a year later. The changes are significant. I take time each day to find some joy and honor myself and my journey. I have gone from granny panties to owning more lingerie than you can imagine. I own it for me and because it makes me feel feminine and special. I still wear several hats every day, but at the end of the day I remember I am a powerful, feminine woman worthy of all life has to offer. This next year will be a continuation of this self exploration. I cannot wait to see what I learn as I surrender even more to the process.

Dressing for insecurities

We all have those things about ourselves that we don’t like. We all have hang ups when it comes to the size on a tag or a style of clothing. I am here to tell you NONE of that matters. Throw everything you think you know out the window! We often get women in our studio who tell us they don’t like lingerie. It isn’t that they dislike lingerie. It is that they haven’t found the right cut, or haven’t been brave enough to try on the right item. Women will come in with items that do not fit well because they are hung up on the number on the tag. Those numbers mean nothing. One brand’s size 6 could be another brand’s size 10. Try it ALL on and see what you like! We have items in our client closet that have an L on the tag that are in the medium size and some mediums in the larges because of this.

Try on all the lingerie!

Those parts of our bodies that we don’t like, who doesn’t have them? By trying on the lingerie you will find those problem areas are minimized or may disappear altogether. What the clothing doesn’t take care of we can work with while taking your photos by posing or with lighting. Ultimately you need to choose items that make you feel WONDERFUL. Pieces of clothing that make you feel empowered, sexy, and feminine. If they don’t then put them in the no pile and move on. Don’t get down if the first few pieces are a miss. Not everything is going to be flattering on every body type. We are here to help you thru the process and recommend things that might be out of your normal comfort zone.

Try on that strappy ultra sexy lingerie! You may be surprised at how hot you look in it. Didn’t like how you once looked in a teddy? Well try on another one! Try on different cuts of panties and see which one shows off your asset the best. Try on different bras to see which gives you the sexiest curves. This is the time when you can go all out and be 100% woman. Focus on your needs and what makes you feel amazing. Don’t worry about what anyone else may think or say. If you feel amazing your confidence will radiate from the inside out and will certainly impact the quality of your Boudoir Experience. Your photos will be elevated as a result.

Don’t be afraid to step outside your comfort zone.

Battle Scars

Why we should embrace the scars of our lives instead of hiding them

Scars. We all have them! Why do we always try to hide them? We should wear them proudly. Afterall, isn’t it a sign that we have lived thru something difficult and made it! We should be showing those puppies off like badges of completion instead of hiding behind them. But, that just isn’t human nature I guess.

Breast Cancer Boudoir Session

So often I get women in the studio for a boudoir session and they have scars of one sort or another and they ask me to edit them out or pose them so they don’t show. I wish we could all be so brave as my new friend, Robyn.

Robyn and I met in October, fitting month if you ask me, at a conference we were both speaking at. She shared with me she had survived Breast Cancer and wished to have a boudoir session once she healed from her revision surgery. Photographing cancer patients is something near and dear to my heart as I lost my mom to Pancreatic Cancer 5 years ago. I felt an instant connection with Robyn and couldn’t wait to photograph her.

It isn’t uncommon for people not to understand why a woman would want to do a sexy boudoir session without breasts. Let me tell you a few things I have learned about it. Cancer is a thief! I comes in an takes everything from a person. It steals your time, you health, your life as you knew it, your confidence, your ability to do the things you once loved, your freedom, and in this case it stole her breasts. However, there are a few things cancer can take ONLY if you let it. And Robyn refused to let it take her womanhood, her self esteem, or one more second of her life. Her shoot was about reclaiming herself and celebrating who she is and the fact that cancer DID NOT win and no longer has control over her or her life. She is still sexy! She is still a WOMAN! She is still feminine. She is still beautiful. And she chooses to keep LIVING! A woman is so much more than breast size.

When you get knocked down by life you have a choice, give it hell and battle thru it to stand up and say “you hit like a bitch” or let it keep you down. Either way you will end up with scars. Stand up and show those scars proudly then keep on living! Truly live. Enjoy those precious little moments. Celebrate the little wins as much as the big wins, because every win is a win.

Share your journey….you never know who may be in the trenches right now. They may need to know someone went thru the same thing and came out the other side triumphant! If you are the one who is in the battle right now, keep going. You’ve got this. You have a 100% success rate on surviving everything life has thrown at you so far and I like those odds!

Milk Bath Boudoir Session

Tips for posing your face for a sexy photo

I don’t know about you, but when I have had photos taken of me in the past I have looked at myself and thought “Holy crap, why did I make that face!?!” I have been told I have RBF (resting bitch face) lol. I have struggled with posing my face for photos a great deal. Thankfully, my clients generally don’t have that problem. Here are some tips to remember for your next photo session.

Relax Your Forehead

I know I struggle with this one. When you concentrate you tend to tense, or wrinkle up, your forehead. It is just second nature for a lot of us. Remember to take a deep breath and relax those muscles. Your photographer may be able to edit out those lines if you tense them, but it will not look as effortless as it would If you just let it relax.

Look down your body

I love this one! Looking down your body, down your shoulder etc gives you somewhere else to look that isn’t straight into the lense. It creates variety and gives the photo a more candid feel. When you do this your eyes relax and you get a super sultry look especially if you are taking a strap off your shoulder etc. It lets the imagination run wild.

Open your eyes slowly

This trick will give you that smolder look without much effort. Especially if you look down then slowly look up thru those gorgeous lashes!

Part your lips slightly

This draws attention to your mouth and gives it a soft sexy look without being overly pouty. You can also try things like speaking slowly and emphasising the letters like B or P etc to give a more natural pout to your look! Practice in the mirror and see which you like best before your session. It may seem silly, but trust me IT WORKS!

Smile with those eyes

This gives a little “twinkle” and an air of mischief to the photo. One your partner will go wild over!!

Bring on the smile!

Big smiles, little smirks and everything in between are appropriate when taking boudoir photos. The smirk is my all time personal favorite. It makes them wonder what your secret is and keeps them guessing.

Above all have fun! Boudoir is a great way to explore and push your comfort zone a bit. There is ultimately no right or wrong way to pose. It is all about what works for you and makes you feel good!

Happy posing, until next time,

Christen

Behind the Scenes at Boudoir by Christen

A Day of Empowerment

So, you've decided to embark on a journey of self-love and empowerment with Boudoir by Christen – congratulations on choosing to celebrate yourself! As your session approaches, you might be wondering what to expect on the big day. Allow me to walk you through the incredible experience that awaits you.

Warm Welcome

When you step into our studio, you're greeted with a warm welcome. Creating a comfortable and inviting atmosphere is our priority. We want you to feel at ease from the moment you walk through the door.

Getting to Know You

Before diving into the session, we take some time to chat and get to know each other. It's essential for me to understand your vision, preferences, and what makes you feel empowered. Your comfort and confidence are our top priorities.

Hair and Makeup Magic

To kick off your boudoir experience, we have a talented hair and makeup artist ready to enhance your natural beauty. This isn't about transforming you into someone else; it's about highlighting your unique features and making you feel fabulous.

Wardrobe Selection

Whether you've brought an array of outfits or are unsure where to start, we'll work together to choose the perfect wardrobe for your session. From elegant lingerie to cozy sweaters, your outfit choices are as diverse as your personality.

Guided Posing

Feeling nervous about posing? Don't worry – I've got you covered. Throughout the session, I'll provide gentle guidance to capture your most flattering angles. The emphasis is on creating images that reflect your authentic beauty and unique personality.

A Relaxed Atmosphere

Boudoir by Christen is all about fostering a relaxed atmosphere. There's no rush, no pressure – just a space where you can embrace your femininity and let your confidence shine. We'll take breaks, chat, and ensure you feel completely at ease.

Unveiling Your Stunning Images

After the session, you'll have a chance to view your images and witness the magic we've created together thru an in person or virtual reveal session. Seeing yourself through the lens of empowerment is a transformative experience, and I'm here to celebrate those moments with you.

Choosing Your Favorites

Selecting your favorite images is a delightful part of the process. Whether you're drawn to the soft and sensual or the bold and powerful, the choice is entirely yours. Your selected images will be crafted into timeless pieces that you can cherish forever.

The Reveal

Finally, the grand reveal! When you receive your beautifully packaged products, it's an exciting moment. Opening that package and seeing your stunning images in print is a celebration of your unique beauty and the empowerment you've embraced.

Your Boudoir by Christen experience is not just a photoshoot; it's a day of self-celebration, empowerment, and capturing the essence of your beautiful journey. Ready to embark on this empowering adventure? Let's make magic happen!

Top 5 Things to “Wear” at your boudoir session that aren’t Clothing

Boudoir certainly allows for a lot of creative freedom, something I love! Thinking outside the box and coming up with fun creative ways to create portraits, especially with the sexy nature of boudoir photography is such fun. So, I figured why not write about my top 5 things to use, instead of clothing, to “cover” a client during their boudoir session.

1. A pillow. These are readily available in all shapes and sizes in the studio and are a natural go to during a boudoir session. Not only can they be used to cover (or uncover), but they are also allow the playful side to come to out when acting out a sexy pillow fight!

2. Sheets! I love posing with sheets. I am sure everyone has seen a photo or two of someone in bed or by the window posing with a sheet. If not, you seriously need to hop on Pinterest and get to searching. It is one of my favorite “props” to pose with. Whether it is implied or full nude, posing with sheets is a way to be alluring while not baring all for the camera. It gives a taste without revealing the whole cake and allows the imagination to run wild!

3. Flowers. You can be so creative with flowers or even just their petals. A great way to cover parts while adding artistic flare. Also great for milk or tea bath sessions! Can I just say I am obsessed with bath sessions…..Ok….I am beyond obsessed with them. When I remodeled my house, I chose my tub specifically for tub sessions. I don’t know if that was genius or pathetic lol. Flowers are not only great for coverage, but they smell so heavenly. They add to the entire ambience of the session.

4. Towels. After a beautiful bath session or a sexy shower session, towels are a natural transition and make things super steamy! Like sheets, the imagination can run wild while towels cover a little or a lot.

5. Books and magazines are also a favorite for adding a bit of drama to your session and photos! They can bring a touch of personality to your boudoir shoot by adding your favorites to either cover you or as an added prop. Either way books and magazines can add an extra flair to your photo session.

6. Your boudoir experience should be as unique as you are. Take time with your photographer to come up with some fun creative ideas. Start a mood board and share it with your photographer. Pinterest is great for this. Don’t expect your photographer to copy each pose, but do share them for inspiration for your shoot. Pin things like your lingerie, poses, photos with lighting you like etc. These are all ways we like to get to know you and your style.

   The sky is the limit. Start thinking even before you book your session. Hope this has inspired some ideas.

   Until Next Time,

   Christen XOXO

A Grateful Heart

This last Thursday I was able to wrap my arms around my son again! He was deployed to the middle east for just over a year. What a year it has been. Friday we observed Veteran’s Day. Veteran’s Day has always been held with great regard in my family and I thank my parents and grandparents for that. However, having a son and son in law who are both veterans the day has taken on special reverence over the years. I grew up with many family members serving this great nation thru the generations. And last November, getting ready to say goodbye, we stood for the National Anthem and I was brought to tears as my 3 year old grandson knew to stand with his hand over his heart with respect. In those moments there is a humbleness.

I took this photo the day my son deployed. The flag was displayed behind the podium and I was able to capture this sweet moment with he and his daughter. When was the last time you really sat and thought about what these men and women sacrifice for us? It makes me so proud and humbles me to my knees when I think of what they do. I look at my daughter and daughter in law and think of how they handled things here while the boys were deployed. Again….so humbled and so very very proud. It is just so much that military families do for each of us, I think we forget from time to time just how much they do. I know 90% of the military people I know are incredibly humble and do not want attention brought to their service or sacrifice. They have servant’s hearts! They are beautiful giving people. I look at this country right now and all the ugliness and it makes me so sad! It makes me sad that people can’t see how good they have it. That they can’t see how blessed they are. They take for granted people like our military. What would we do without those who voluntarily enlisted?

I will get off that soap box, but I just really wanted to say a GREAT BIG THANK YOU to every one who does or has served (including family members). You all mean the world to this family and we are loving and praying for you each and every day!

Embracing the Magic of Boudoir Photography

For me, photography has always been an exploration of art, but there's something extraordinary about the world of Boudoir that transcends mere artistry. It's a realm where art meets intimacy, forging connections and sharing unique stories with each session and every client. It's a journey that goes beyond aesthetics, making each moment unique and undeniably special.

Capturing the beauty of so many women in this intimate way has been a healing journey for me. It's a transformative experience that has allowed me to see beauty in every situation, healing my own wounds along the way. Women often come to their boudoir sessions with a longing to truly "see" themselves, to celebrate their femininity, and to affirm that they are enough. Witnessing this transformative process is nothing short of magical – like watching a bud unfurl into a full, glorious bloom. It's challenging to articulate the profound impact of a woman embracing herself fully in front of my lens; it's simply enchanting.

The power of boudoir goes beyond the images. It's about witnessing orenda experiences, appreciating the richness of life, and recognizing one's worth. I've found healing in the vulnerability shared by incredible women who entrust me to capture the magic – their beautiful souls and glorious bodies that are perfect in their uniqueness.

I choose to photograph boudoir because it allows me to reveal to women how others see them and to narrate their stories through my lens. Each woman deserves to know how incredible, strong, brave, and spectacular she is. In the midst of their busy lives, filled with to-do lists and responsibilities, they need to be reminded that they are more than the sum of their tasks. They can be the boss at work and still embody fierce femininity with soft edges. Amidst the myriad roles they play for others, it's crucial to show up for themselves, to love boldly, madly, and deeply.

Photographing boudoir is not just about creating pretty pictures; it's about delving into the depths of a person, empowering them, crafting art, and narrating a story that reflects their authentic selves. It's a celebration of the incredible, multifaceted women who choose vulnerability, strength, and self-love.

Investing in your Boudoir Experience

Investing in your boudoir experience is a topic that often takes center stage in our conversations, and rightfully so. It's more than just dedicating your time or money – it's about entrusting us with your most vulnerable moments. Your investment is a triple play – time, money, and trust.

When you step into our studio for a boudoir experience, it's an absolute honor for us. We're thrilled to capture you in this chapter of your life, holding space for whatever you need – be it celebration, a milestone, a gift for a loved one, or a journey back to yourself. Your experience kicks off with ideas; share your inspirations, whether it's a Pinterest board or your favorite tee shirt, and we'll craft a mood/vision board tailored to you.

The journey begins with pampering – hair and makeup to make you feel as fantastic as you are. We start with the clothing you're most comfortable in, guiding you through poses and creating timeless art. Post-session, my editing magic begins, and we'll schedule your reveal session where you'll see your images for the first time.

Now, let's talk about the necessary evil – money. To reserve your date, a non-refundable retainer fee of $450 is required. This covers my time, studio usage, client closet, professional hair and makeup, and editing. It doesn't include finished artwork, digital or physical – those are entirely your choice. We've meticulously curated products with the best labs worldwide, ensuring quality and privacy for your images.

You have flexibility in payment methods – prepay your session and collection, pay in full on session day or reveal day, or opt for a post-reveal payment plan. The retainer secures your date, but you can pay for products as you wish. Prepayment has perks – no waiting, bonuses, and cohesive planning. Paying in full avoids waiting for products but misses out on extra benefits. A post-reveal payment plan offers a layaway-style option, and we accept various payment methods.

Our goal is to make this process transparent, showing that we're just people loving on people. I'm eager to learn your story and create magic together!

New Chapters

I am a storyteller and life is one big story book to me. Each chapter is unique and filled with it’s own story and lesson. Last week I was able to speak at the Women’s Leadership Network Conference here in town. What an honor! I have been debating on whether or not to share what I had prepared. My heart decided I needed to. My hope is perhaps someone out there is going thru something and can relate and will know they will come out the otherside changed, but better for it. So here goes…

I look back on my life (almost a half century now) and look at all the beautiful chapters I have written and I am in awe. I have been a maid in a dive motel, worked for the legislature, owned a restaurant, and as a single mother of three went back to school and became a nurse. Now here I am, an award winning, published photographer. What a ride!

Five years ago one of my chapters ended and I honestly didn’t know how to begin a new one. My mother, who was my everything, lost her battle to Pancreatic Cancer and I lost myself. I had put down my camera when she got sick and I didn’t pick it up for three years. I couldn’t see a world without her in it.

My next chapter was uncertain, scary, and full of dread and fear of failure. How the HELL was I going to do this without her? She was my compass after all. For 14 months I was my mom’s caregiver. She was my best friend, confidant, and my world. Losing her was the toughest thing I have ever gone thru. When she passed I didn’t know who I was anymore. I was no longer Mitzi’s daughter. Who was I? I felt like a balloon who’s string had been let go of; adrift in the sky without direction. I was lost and needed to figure out how to “see” again.

On a whim, and with much urging from my family, I loaded my car one day and left the house. And so began a 1500 mile, 6 day solo road trip. No plans. When I wanted to turn right I did. When I wanted to turn left I turned left. I took my camera with me on that trip. Not only did I listen to a LOT of Creedance and AC/DC at full volume with the windows down, but I took a LOT of pictures. I was never alone, really. My Mom, God, the Universe, Nature they were all there counseling me the whole time. Then on day six I knew I had begun to heal and it was time to go home. I made several commitments to myself during that time away…

1. I promised to be true to myself

2. I gave myself permission to be my own person and the artist I chose to be. No more trying to please everyone all the time

3. I gave myself permission to forgive others, but I also forgave MYSELF

4. I gave myself permission to live again and make this life and this chapter the best one yet

5. I gave myself permission to succeed

6. I gave myself permission to fail

For me, the biggest aversion to transformation was the fear of failure. Can you relate? What if I fall on my face? What if my business doesn’t make any money? What if I say the wrong thing? What if what if what if….

I embraced failure. So much so I began a love affair with it. If I am going to do something I am going to do it up good. So I decided to fail with all the fan fair and glory I could. I also committed to do things that were my truth and no one else’s. I would be the woman and the artist I chose to be, not who others wanted me to be. Once that happened the fear factor took a back seat. Now, it still calls to me from its seat in the peanut gallery from time to time. However, it no longer controls where I am going.

Just this year I had to pivot, to transform, to face the F word. I had a thriving newborn photography business. However, I also have this wonderful thing called autoimmune disease that likes to TRY to take me out from time to time. I had pushed too hard this spring and my health relapsed. I had to cut back on photographing those beautiful babies significantly. However, with all things in life there was a silver lining. I was able to pick up an old love of mine which I had neglected for far too long, Boudoir. I have missed it so much as it allows me to create beautiful art while empowering, encouraging and loving on women who need and deserve it. I am so very blessed to have been given the opportunity to, once more, turn and grown in another direction. Because I have learned to embrace change, and no longer have a paralyzing fear of failure, I was able to cut back and nurture another passion of mine. Another chapter has begun and it is looking mighty steamy (which could also be hot flashes…not sure which).

Your biography is being written. What does you next chapter say? I know I am excited to know all about it.

In loving memory of Mitzi Richards

My favorite things for you to wear to your boudoir session that aren’t lingerie!

One reason I love boudoir photography so much is the amount of creative freedom it allows. We women are sexy, let’s face it. We don’t have to be dressed in satin and lace to steam up the bedroom. Sometimes the simplest items get the best reactions. Now don’t get me wrong, we have an entire client closet filled to the brim with lacey little numbers waiting for you. And damn you look good in them! But here are a few of my favorite everyday items that leave a BIG impression…

That tee shirt or tank top. Ohhhlala. These little numbers pack a punch. They offer so many options for posing (off the shoulder, pulled up from the waist to reveal those sexy panties, WET, tied, you get my drift). They are also super comfortable. Who doesn’t like comfort, especially when you will be posing in some ways you may not have tried before. They also offer a way to disguise areas you may not want to draw attention to without it looking intentional (BONUS).

1. The oversized sweater! It is sweata weatha after all. Like the tee shirt above there are so many posing options it will blow your mind. Plus it is super cozy which is nice to warm up on since you will be bare before long (wink)..

2. The white dress shirt. Damn he looks fine in it, but you look even better in it. He will be drooling over these photos for sure. An added bonus, everytime he wears it again he will think of you!

3. Heels….oh mylanta! Heels do so much for a girl during a boudoir session. They tighten up all those leg muscles and glutes…..muuuuuaaahhhh….perfection. Plus they are just sexy as hell anyway.

4. The sheet. Now before you go and say no to this one let me tell you so many women say no, but by the end of the session feel so amazing they are shouting a big fat YES!. We can do so much with just a plain ol sheet. You can drape it with you garments peeking out, we can strategically place it so it looks as though you are nude (implied nudity), or you can go for it and strip down and get nakey with the sheet for even more options. Whatever you comfort level the sheet is your friend. Thrust me on this!

So get in that closet girl and get to picking out your wardrobe. I am ready with my camera!

Coffee and Boudoir

Okay, let's talk about my love affair with coffee – it's real. Every morning, it's the same routine: wake up, make coffee, savor every drop, and then officially become a functioning human. If I'm out and about, you bet I'm making a pit stop for that liquid gold. Meeting up? Coffee date, anyone? Those $5 and $6 cups of heaven are like my daily ritual, and honestly, I don't even think twice about the money I drop on them. It just feels too good, you know? Who's with me on this caffeine journey?

But here's the thing – as much as I adore my coffee, it's a fleeting pleasure. Poof, gone! I practically flush my money down the toilet (no regrets, though). Now, what if I told you there's a way to invest that cash into something that sticks with you for a lifetime? Something that makes you feel as amazing as that first sip of coffee every single day, without the drain on your wallet?

Enter: the boudoir session. It's not just about pretty pictures for the gram – it's a whole vibe! According to my awesome clients, it's a confidence boost, a radiant feeling, a powerful moment, and so much more. Women walk out feeling like they've leveled up – more self-love, more positive vibes, the whole shebang.

And then there's the magic of seeing yourself in print. Forget digital, I'm talking about holding your bomb-ass self in your hands – it's a whole experience. The first time you lay eyes on your images in print? Cue the tears (yeah, I'm a cryer, no shame). Stripping away the mirror's flaws and seeing the goddess you truly are? Intense and utterly wonderful.

Now, here's the kicker – this investment keeps on giving. Every glance at those gorgeous photos takes you back to the moment they were captured. You feel all those beautiful vibes over and over again. It's like the comfort of your morning coffee, but way better – it's empowerment served on a silver platter. And guess what? Our products are guaranteed for a LIFETIME. Even if your toddler gets adventurous near the toilet, we've got your back!

So, as much as I cherish my coffee, you, my friend, are worth way more than that cup of Joe. It's time for a boudoir session, and trust me, you need it ASAP! Give me a call, let's make magic happen! #BoudoirMagic #InvestInYourself #MoreThanCoffee

Top 5 Reasons Women Wish They Had Booked Sooner…

Let’s face it, hitting send on that inquiry button or on your phone is scary! Almost every women who books their boudoir session has a little anxiety about the unknown. After photographing women for several years I discovered a common theme among them, they all wished they had booked their sessions sooner. Many had the same reasons for their remorse. Here are the top 5 reasons women wish they had booked sooner…

#1 It wasn’t nearly as scary as I thought!

Taking your clothes off in front of a stranger is nerve wracking to say the least! Who wouldn’t be nervous? However, rest assured we go slow and easy thru the process. We start where you are comfortable and end where you are comfortable. Many ladies have come in and while sitting for hair and makeup have said they absolutely will NOT be going nude or even want to attempt implied nude. Which is 100% fine. However, they shock themselves when toward the end of the session feel so inspired, empowered, and alive they just go for it! It is your session and you are in complete control from beginning to end.

#2 You were right, those extra pounds didn’t matter!

We women are way to critical of ourselves. Our bodies are so fierce. They serve us faithfully each and everyday and we need to celebrate them for all they do and have done for us. If you have areas that really bother you, however, we can address that with clothing, posing, and lighting choices. Our whole purpose is to make you feel like the Bad Ass Goddess you are. Will you trust me?

#3 I am so glad I did this for myself!

Listen girlfriend…YOU are your longest relationship you will ever have. Aren’t YOU worth taking the photos for? Aren’t YOU worthy of feeling special and spectacular in your own right? I have had sooooo many women who are doing them for themselves. It is such a confidence and self love booster. Trust me when I say you ARE worth it!

#4 I don’t know how to be “sexy”, but you showed me how to be me!

You don’t have to be a professional sex kitten to have a boudoir shoot. All you have to do is be willing to follow instructions. I am there to guide you into and out of poses throughout your shoot. We are a team and I have been a cheerleader for an awful long time so you are in good hands.

#5 I had know idea what to wear. I am so glad you had a client closet and advice!

Who really has a lingerie store in their closet? If you do, can we be friends, please? There are so many things you can “wear” (or not wear) for a boudoir shoot. During our consultations I will help you decide on things to bring with you. You are always welcome to use our client closet. We have sizes XS to 4XL. However, sometimes the sexiest items are things like his tee shirt, those shorts you wear that drive him nutso, a sheet, his work clothes, a white dress shirt, etc etc. The options are limitless. Don’t fret….I know we will find you something to wear…

I don’t know if you found yourself in any of the above, I know I had uttered all those phases before my first session. As always please reach out with ANY questions. I love answering them. I look forward to getting to know you and your story. Be Bold. Be Brave. Be You

Christen

Girls’ Night Out

I have fond memories of slumber parties of yesteryear; jumping up and down on the bed, talking about boys, eating way too much junk food, and staying up too late giggling. I decided it was a shame we don’t do something like that as adults. Who decided it was no longer fun, or was inappropriate or whatever happened? I think we ladies need more fun girls nights…so in the spirit of those late night sleepovers I have decided to introduce my Girls Night Boudoir Package!

You and up to 4 of your friends can come to the studio, get all glammed up, eat snacks and be a hype gal for one another while you each enjoy your own Boudoir Experience. I am so freaking excited about this I can hardly stand it honestly! You will each have professional hair and makeup, I will provide you with all the munchables. All you need to do is get your girlfriends on board and have a great time. Talk about selfie heaven, hello! Jumping on the bed could be encouraged (just don’t tell my business partner). You will have full access to our client closet, which has sizes ranging from XS to 4XL, our couture gowns, and our wings. However, if you choose to come in matching pj’s I won’t complain. We will get individual boudoir photos as well as group photos for you to remember your night of fun. Booking a Girls’ night means you also receive a discount on session fees and 10% off all collections and products purchased following your night! You will each receive a special free gift from yours truly just for being awesome!

A few days afterward we will meet at the studio again to go thru your images, I highly recommend your group all viewing the images together so you can relive all the fun again! We will order your collections and final art pieces during this reveal session. Remember you receive 10% off any collections and products! Once your products arrive I will inspect them all to ensure their quality then contact you to arrange delivery.

Just because we get older shouldn’t mean we stop being young at heart. Now thru October 15th enjoy an extra 10% discount on session fees!

Why Boudoir

Unleashing the Power of YOU!

Hey there, Beautiful!

Let's chat about those two magical words – Boudoir Photography. Now, I may be a tad biased, but trust me, there's a lot more to it than just pretty undies and stunning pictures.

In a world where the voices in our heads love to chant about so-called imperfections, Boudoir is like a superhero cape for self-love. Imagine a whole year where we loved ourselves as fiercely as we love our besties – now, that's a world filled with goodness and light waiting to happen!

Being a Boudoir photographer? Oh, it's not just a job; it's an incredible journey. It's about capturing your true spirit, showcasing the magic others see in you. We're programmed to spot flaws in the mirror, but a photograph? It gives us a fresh perspective, showing us as the true works of art that we are. Powerful, right?

Now, I get it. Anxiety likes to make guest appearances during the Boudoir process – from hitting send to book your session, to walking into the studio, to seeing your photos. Guess what? Totally normal! You don't need to drop those 10 pounds, turn back time, or be in a relationship. You're perfect, imperfections and all. Those quirks? They tell your story, and trust me, it's a darn good one.

As you approach the studio, remember we're all human here – me, the hair and makeup artist – wonderfully, perfectly imperfect women cheering you on. Expect some not-so-graceful dance moves from me; laughter is practically guaranteed.

During your session, you'll experience a rollercoaster of emotions – from giddiness to a centered calm empowerment. Vulnerability, courage, and strength will be your companions, and when it's all done, you'll walk away changed. A glow of self-love and a confidence boost like no other – that's the magic of Boudoir.

So, why Boudoir? Whether it's a celebration, a gift, a life change, or a confidence boost, it's here to celebrate YOU. Forget 'why,' let's ask 'why not?' Because, gorgeous, you deserve to be celebrated, just as you are.